Hi my dearest ****,
How are you doing, and how was your night? I had a very long rest and now I have enough power to go through my day. Oh I like your humor very much, Anyway I was not trying to fish for compliment or attract you attention when I said I don't look good in photos, but the fact is that I don't really like looking my self in photos, because anytime I do, it feels like I am not that handsome that I wish I were Smiley and it's one of the reasons why I don't like to make photos of my self. I think if you view it from my point you will understand my statement. To answer your question if I live close to you, I am currently in Hannover, I thought you could see that on my page on 50+ .. I must inform you that I have no problem with distance, because i am willing to travel to meet when it comes to that.
By the way, I am already feeling lucky at this moment because our communication has come to this level. i will like to take the liberty to tell you more about myself.. i am a simple man,very cultured with moral values and have a good sense of humor...i am gentle,honest and respect humanity...I am the only surviving child of my parents because i lost my older brother to illness when i was still young so i was loved and protected by my parents..i lost both mother and father years ago..my father died 13years ago and my mother 7years ago...i have no children because my wife was not medically fit to bear me children and this was a great burden unto her even though i had no problem with that..i enjoyed the earlier days of marriage until the health failure of my wife set in,she could not give me children even though it was not so important for me..she took to drinking heavily and we often argued but in all i stayed loyal to her until the last moment when she closed her eyes on the hospital bed...she died from cancer... I said to my self I had to let love go but now i feel i really need someone in my life because i know the bad experiences in life educate us to the good things we weren't paying attention to before. I think confidence is the greatest asset a person can have, both in themselves and in the environment around them.
Yes I know my past has not been the best..my childhood was a lonely one since i was not allowed to mingle with other children or get the chance to play and socialize..my parents thought it was to protect me because all they had was me but it made me a dull boy since i was not allowed to have too many or close friends...
I am looking forward to a new beginning though..i have been tamed for a very long time and have decided not to stay in the past,when i first lost my wife it took me some time to recover the shock and i never though it will be possible to come out of it,but then with time the wounds have healed and i am fit to continue with my life...
My Work
I am self employed, I am a Goldsmith and thats what i do for a living..during the years i have enlarged my work into mining and selling the gold in europe..my work sends me to a lot of places and countries..i travel a lot but then i only mine 3 times a year if i am lucky to get mines to work in.
My Interests
I enjoy listening to music, Dancing, reading, watch football , playing billiard, swimming, traveling as it is what my business has put me into though I also like to travel during my long holidays just to enjoy my time. I enjoy conversation over coffee or tea and I like dinning out. I also enjoy cooking ,but my culinary skills max out at two pans and five ingredients... hahahaha.
My Likes
I must say loyalty is very important to me in a relationship. I value kids fresh outlook on the world and the unconditional affection of pets, I don't have any pets currently though. I had a great romance in the past so I know it is within me to express love and passion. I like a woman who has achieved self actualization, that is not dwelling on what happened way back when but what could happen today or tomorrow. Those that dwell in the past are not around me very long, I spot them from miles and run fast. I like intelligence, not necessarily from the academic side, but common sense and the ability to think through things. I like a woman that can carry a conversation and is not afraid to learn or to teach for that matter. I am imaginative, intelligent, I have a kind-heart. maybe you want to share the adventure of life as we help one another become happier, better people along the way? If you are sincere, smart, and special Zwinkernd. I would like someone who is as warm on the inside as they are on the outside. Someone to laugh and cry with, And share what's in your heart.. To be my friend, then become my best friend and possible become my life. Someone to watch sunsets with. walk along beaches with.. Who will be there for good, bad,happy,sad,laugh,cry and even share a smile with.. My life is bright now but with you maybe it'll be brighter. who knows?? well lets leave that for time and faith to decide...
My dislikes
Liars, cheats,violence dishonesty.
Well I think I have writting enough for now, but I won't leave without asking you some questions .. Smiley
1,Tell me about yourself and your past relationship...
2,Tell me about your family??
3,Explain more about what you do for a living?
4,Do you believe in soulmates???
That not all I have a lot more questions to ask, but I think this is enough for now. I will ask more as we keep in touch which I hope you would like.
I am hoping to hear from you soon , till then, have a day as beautiful as you are.
Take care of your self.
Nigel