Er hat sich gestern bei connectingsingles gemeldet und heute ein Mail geschrieben. 

http://www.connectingsingles.com/user/fishmeout11

Thank you so much for your kindly respond, and also for the email address. Well here are a pic, and also few things about me xxxxx. Nice name there you have, nice meeting you. Well, i am James Patton by name as you already know. the most loneliest man, you may be about to know. No family its all about me and me. But i have not given up yet, a great day awaits me and i can sense it. Life is so sad when you do not have anyone special to be happy with you, you know. i have a 3bedroom house with a small swimming pool. life is sad when you don't have someone to cuddle with, i am the only child of my late parent and i am all alone for a long time now. i am gentle, humble, trustful, highly loving and caring. i like giving out when ever i have, making friends and creating good reputations among human limit. I am a practical Christian and i move with faith in the lord, also am looking for my real life partner to share my life with and make up a home with the fear of God and humanity, also am a man who is of medium intelligence. I am patient, generous, kind, and loving. i am always upbeat, have a positive attitude about most things and i like to have fun.
i enjoy music, theater, movies and art. i love to travel, and to go sightseeing. i love museums, romantic dinners, seaside resorts and sunsets.. i am a fun loving person who loves to laugh and make others laugh..  i believe in honor, manners, ethics and treating people with respect and look for the same qualities in my friends. i also have a quiet side and am quite content staying home especially if i have someone to snuggle up with. i pride myself in being independent both emotionally and financially. i have reach a point where i am seeking a committed relationship. i look into the future with hope and would like to create a relationship based on respect, understanding, trust and love. Seeking a relationship with longevity and not just something that will end in just a blink of an eye. someone that i can love, take very good care of, be happy with and spend the rest of our lives together, And i don't care about the distance or the age because distance is just way and age is also just  a number as you know. I am healthy, athletic, and in good shape and enjoy tennis, golf and racquetball.
i am looking for Someone loyal, attractive, fun to be with, who likes to travel, read, exercise.. i have a great sense of humor and can dish it out to make a sad day enjoyable. Honestly i have all that it takes to be a man, i don't really need anything from my partner. maybe in terms of circumstances there might be some kind of help from each other, helping to make things right. it's not all that easy meeting that rightful woman with all these qualities which i am dreaming off, but i can see all this qualities in you with your picture. i don't have many friends but am a good friendship keeper, i keep the little friends i have with care. i am a very sincere person who laughs easily, loves to tease and be teased and who communicates openly and honestly. i always try to enjoy the simple things in life, and not take anything for granted.. my prayers is to have a good loving woman who will love me for the rest of my life.  i will be happy if you will be able to tell me more about yourself too. tell me more about your hobbies, your experience on the dating site and the kind of man you want in your life. hope to read from you sooner with some pictures. Goodnight.
James, your new friend.
xxx

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Hello xxxxx
I hope you are doing well, and also having a loving day my dear. I am now in the office working on some files and documents, and i am replying to your email now. In the first place, thank you so much for your letter, and also for the beautiful photos.  I appreciate your taking the time to tell me about yourself, i really appreciate your honesty in that i set a very high priority on honesty. It's been such a great pleasure to share a lot with you this way, i really appreciate it. i do really like all about you,very interesting but sorry for the bad side of yours. xxxxx, you know the future is how you make it so i think we should keep the faith and hope for the best for our selves. Life goes on, and love also do still goes on xxxxx. Life is so sad when you do not have anyone special to be happy with or cuddle with. i am looking for the true love of my life as i am tired of my loneliness.. Life hasn't been so good to me for which i think it is now time for me to enjoy life to its fullest as i have got so much love in my heart to give out when i meet my right woman. I look for the good in most situations, and choose to look for the good in others. I know that life involves give and take and that what you seek is that you must be willing to give and demonstrate yourself. 
i want you to know more about myself xxxxx, know more about each other and see how best this can work for us since we both don't know what the future will bring us. i was born in Canada, i was the only son of my parent due to the early death of my father, and my mother did not marry again because all she wanted was to take good care of me. She wanted the best for me in life, after the death of my father life was a bit hard for us so we moved and relocated in the States where i completed my high school. i joined the US Army when i completed high school in Baltimore(Maryland). I have been in the Military for over 30 years now and currently am serving in a camp in Syria with United States Forces for peace keeping. Life is so sad when you do not have anyone special to be happy with xxxxx, i am a widower. i lost my wife in a fire outbreak at her work place, she was a cook and working in a restaurant, and died as a result of a gas explosion in the restaurant.
i lost her almost 5 years ago and since then life has not been easy for me and my son, i have a son who is 11 years old and his name is Mark and in grade 5 in School. he is staying in my house with a care taker, the care taker is 40 years and he was working with my late wife in the same restaurant and when my wife died, there was no one to take care of my son because i had to return back to the camp and he agreed to take care of Mark for me whiles i return back to the peace keeping mission. i really loved my wife so much,her death was a shock to me and i felt bad because i was not there to save her from that disaster because i was away in Syria,i loved her so much  that i could not  even think of  marrying again when she died, i was very hurt and sad and did not want to go on any relationship again and that's why i have stayed all these years without any love  in my life. xxxxx all i wanted was to take good care of my son even though am far from him, and that's what i have been doing in the past. but for now i thank God so much because my life now is better than my past. i lost my mum and dad all in heart cancer so you see my  past was very sad, and filled with  much pains but now am okay and that's  why i need a new life my dear. a life  with much happiness, love, care, honesty and kindness. i want to love, and feel loved again in life. i came  on the internet only to look for my soul mate, a life time partner, a woman i can spend the rest of my life with forever my dear. i am  ready to marry again so am looking for a serious woman who will accept me for who i am ..so that we can live together forever and ever.
Well xxxxx, i have now invited you on the msn chat and hope you will accept it and be on msn for a chat as that would be more easy for us. I have checked the time difference between  Syria, and Germany and have realized that Syria is leading Germany with an hour so i can always be on msn on Germany time 19:00 PM and you can also give me your best time that you can always come on msn for a chat then. stay safe, hope you will write again soon xxxxx. enjoy the rest of your day, kisses...
your new friend, James.

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You really impress me with your mails my xxxxx. And i want you to know that you are always on my mind, i just feel bad sometimes because i have a lot of work doing my dear. i wish i could have all the time to write you as much as you would want to read my dear xxxxx. Well i do really love the fact that you are so open with your feelings xxxxx, it is really better that way because you don't waste getting down to what it is you really want. As you will see as you get to know me, i am a man who you can trust with your feeling.  Of course, i should not generalize but, women often have trouble expressing their most vulnerable feelings.  I am so happy that you are an exception to that rule because it is not possible for people to ever really attain true intimacy with out sharing their vulnerability with the other person my dear xxxxx. 
**You may think it is strange to call you my dear xxxxx, but it is the way i really feel. It is strange, and wonderful at the same time smile because i feel like with just a few e-mails we have shared things about ourselves that generally talk a much longer time to share with someone.  Maybe because of the situation you are in at the moment and the place i am in we are just being open and honest with our feelings and what our hearts desires are to be anything else just wastes a lot of time.  Who knows what tomorrow may bring my dear but, today, i am getting so much joy out of just getting to know you better xxxxx my dear. 
Well, i have now invited you again on the msn chat and hope you will accept it this time and be on msn for a chat or you can also take my email address and add me on yours and i will accept it so that we can chat on msn as that would be more easy for us. my msn email address is ( patt.james1@hotmail.com ). kindly take care for yourself, and hope you will write again soon xxxxx. enjoy the rest of your day, kisses and hugs.
James.
xxx

Good morning xxxxx, i am sorry and i do apologize for not responding to your last email until now. there was an explosion over here in my camp where i live and we lost 2soldiers. xxxxx, this is sad but i am happy and i thank God for protecting me and protecting you for me. thank you so much xxxxx, for the time and wonderful conversation you are keeping with me. i am thinking so much about you too my dear, you have brought so much joy, and happiness into my life in this short time that i know you. And i want you to know that you are always on my mind, i misses you every passing second minute hour. you know if you love someone, it does not matter where the person is or who the person is. is the kind of heart the person have. 
You seem to have a very soft, and loving heart xxxxx. the heart that i seek for in my woman, and i want you to know that you are my first and last. There is no looking back as what the future holds is the best for me. you are my Future xxxxx! i have mention you to many of my friends over here princess, and they are very happy for me( for us) i want to see a great future for us my dear, and i believe you are going to hold on tight to help me make this relationship work. Well my dear xxxxx, i have now invited you again on the msn chat and have you got my invitation? stay safe, and hope you will write again soon. enjoy the rest of your day, kisses.
James.
xxx

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You really impress me with your mails my princess, and am so sorry i couldn't had the chance to read your message earlier until now. And i want you to know that you are always on my mind, i misses you every passing second minute hour honey. i just feel bad sometimes because i have a lot of work doing, i wish i could have all the time to write you as much as you would want to read my princess.  you have brought so much joy, and happiness into my life in this short time i know you. it's seems i have known you for many years xxxxx, you see and brings out the best in me. you have made me the happiest man on the earth darling, and i promise i am going to make you a great person in future xxxxx. You know God is in control, and he will let us know what is right for us going forward. to be just friends, to be great friends or to be more than that in the future.
I could only try to be worthy of such high praise from you meaning the beautiful sentiments in your most recent post to me darling. You are such a wonderful, sensitive woman. I have great respect for you, and your thoughts that you honor me by sharing them with me. I have found myself thinking about you every single day, and the thoughts that you have expressed alot darling. We are both so fortunate because we are in a place in our lives where we have alot of beautiful options, and our limitations are only those which we place on ourselves. Those options will unfold for us like petals of a beautiful flower with care, and patience on our part.  What is meant to happier will happen or not. darling we need to be more serious, and understanding of each other. 
Good partner is very important in this life because it will help us keep life strong, and happy always you know. But it takes time to build this solid relationship and trust as i have already told you before, i will say that we are just starting to build those quality trust and faith in each other. i hope that everything would happen the way me, and you are expecting it. It's a little hard for me to control the excitement that i feel about discovering more about you every day, xxxxx i want you to download msn messenger so that we can also have instant chat we get to know each other more better ok. I am sending a link, for your listening enjoyment over there darling. Leona Lewis, "Run" with lyrics.  Hope you can open.  If not check it out on YouTube. Listen to the lyrics very carefully darling. I use music to say the things to you that I am not brave enough to say yet smile. 
 
( http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WBUmlrjOMO8 )

kindly take care of yourself for me, and hope you will write soon darling. enjoy the rest of your day, kisses until then.
your man,
James.
xxx

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