Hello xxx!
I am pleased to meet someone who shares my sincere thoughts. I was touched by your letter and I really want to continue getting to know you. I think everyone has their own reasons for dating online, and I m no exception. I have many reasons, but I will tell you about the most important one...
I had a happy marriage with my husband. But many years ago he died in a car accident. We were never able to have children. We have been happily married for over 15 years! He was quite eloquent and verbose, I couldn’t argue with him at all - I gave up... We discussed films, politics, football, and thought about the topic of children...
I think that the closer you were, the more open you were with each other, the more difficult it was to feel loneliness. Friendly families are built on communication - all decisions are made together, everyone s opinion is taken into account. It was the same with us. That’s why it was so difficult for me to adapt to a new way - to scroll through all the questions only in my head, without being able to discuss something with my husband...
xxx, I didn t want to talk to anyone anymore. And with whom? Who will listen to me whine about problems at work? How do I feel, how do I sleep? Who cares about me?
For the first three years, I didn’t even think about looking for a new man. But living alone depressed me more and more. I once had a dream in which I saw my husband, and he told me: “Abby, I will always love you, but you must move on and find yourself a worthy man. I want you to be happy!” Friends and acquaintances also told me that I should find myself a man, and I began to think about it more and more often. ☝
I even got myself a dog named "Jarvis". Golden Retriever breed. I ll send you photos..... But the older I got, the harder it was to find a partner.
After years of being single, I felt it was time to look again for a long-term relationship. My sister Emilia encouraged me to find a man outside of our country, and online dating seemed like a practical way to get to know someone before making any serious moves.
I am optimistic about the future and look forward to where our communication will lead. ️
Abby