I'm very glad to see your letter. I was thinking about you. I really
want to know you, I want speak with you, I want take your hand and see
your eyes. Probably my words sound too frank, but it's true, and I do
not want to hide it. Ukrainian women do their best for their men but
they don't get anything back. All we need is a couple of tender words
and touch of male hands. Is that so hard? I do not think that a
romantic evening and candlelight dinner is very difficult for the male
to arrange. Isn’t it? But here in Ukraine as usually the women
organizing such present for the man and not vice versa. If a woman
carries heavy bags, no man is helping her: only turn his look away and
go farther. That's why the Ukrainian lady never feels the happiness in
the heart. Probably you think that I am beautiful but here in Ukraine
I am not considered a beautiful lady. Usually Ukraine men treat ladies
disrespectfully They consider that women have to work only, also cook,
wash up and entertain the man when he wants it. Insulting women is a
quite common for Ukraine men. I like to cook, wash up, also I like any
other chores around the home, but sometimes I would like to get
caress, love and attention. I don't want to offend all the male: there
are good male but there are bad male. xxxx, a long time ago I
loved a young man. We've had a good time together. We were not
married, but we have been together for almost 3 years. One year ago, I
decided to stop all relations with this guy. As I already told, we had
a good time together. He was a kind to me, but he liked to drink. When
he was drunk, he became an absolutely another person. He spoke to me
very badly.
Later his love to alcohol became a habit, and then he became rude and
evil. He even hit and beat me a few times, and the next day he smiled
and talked to me so as if nothing had happened to. I began to be
afraid of him, that's why I've had to leave him. In my heart and my
soul there was a deep wound. After this incident I could not get
acquainted with other men. Now I don't trust Ukraine men. I'm afraid
give my love to wrong man and get hurt again. Well... right now I stop
this thread because I don't like it. I always tell the truth, and I
don't like when people lie. I hate it. By the way, I like to dream
very much. I don't sure is this a good or bad, but I'm a dreamer. But
dreams don't always come true. It happens when you put all your forces
and all aspiration to achieve the purposes. Unfortunately, this is
often not enough. Not all in this life depends on us. There is still a
Destiny! Its strong and invisible hands easily reshuffle lives and
hearts of people. And then the dream stops to be desirable star, when
it doesn't come true for a long time. But in any case, I think you
cannot live without dreams and hopes. When you have the dream, a life
filled with meaning. When you have the dream, a life becomes more
interesting and varied. You start to think, analyze, choose and make a
decision. And each small victory each defeated or obstacle in a way to
your dream, each next step to your dream brings you great pleasure.
Your heart is filled with belief and hope. And you are inspired by the
fact which waits for you in the end. You remember that the pleasure of
victories and achieve your aims is better than pain of losses and
disappointments. For this reason I like to dream, though my dreams
come true too rarely. Oh, I'm surprised that I'm writing you all this.
I've never been with someone with whom I could share these ideas. But
now I have found you xxxx, and I am very glad. I don't judge the
people for their location or skin color. xxx, you became very
important for me. And being frank, I am afraid to lose you. Forgive me
for my frankness. If I have offended you somehow, or have caused
inconveniences forgive me please. Please don't stop to email me. Write
me every day, even if I don't answer you every day. Your letters give
me strength and my day is filled with joy.
Until now I have never been acquainted with a man from another
country. This is my first acquaintance on the Internet. And I
apologize if I wrote something not correct or wrong I hope you are not
angry. I will wait for your letter with impatience. And now I want to
ask to you some questions: Do you believe in love? Love at first
sight? If you have any questions, you can ask me. I will try to answer
them. I thank you beforehand.
Yuliia
P.S.
My dear xxx.
I would really like to chat with you over the phone or on social
networks. Unfortunately this is prohibited. Living in a military town
imposes certain responsibilities. Violation of this rule may lead to a
ban on leaving Ukraine or to a prison term of 5 months. Therefore, I
will not violate these rules. I am only allowed to communicate via
email.
xxx, here is my picture.