Hi again xxx! It's so nice to get your new letter. I think you
like the start of our chatting, because I see your another letter to
me. To be true I was thinking for the whole day, will you answer to my
letter or not. I think you've heard a lot of bad stories about girls.
In my opinion they have ashamed their countries and I don't respect
this type of people. I can't understand how can they cheat good
people. But I hope you will never compare me with such girl. I'm a
different girl and you will understand it later.
I asked you to chat with me by email. You can ask me, why only email?
There are a lot of social networks and etc.. What's a problem? I will
explain. It's a long story, but I will try to tell you about my bad
experience. I had an account on Facebook 2 years ago. But one day a
boy asked to add him to my friends. I agreed and it was my first
mistake. In the start he wrote to me he wanted to meet me. And invited
me to various cafes or restaurants. But I wasn't interested in this
acquaintance. Because at that time I was only interested in my studies
(I was a good student). I dreamed of getting a diploma, because I
studied for free and I was worried about how I would pass all exams.
But that guy was very persistent. I explained to him that I liked his
attention, but he was not sympathetic to me and I was only busy with
my studies. When I explained all this to him, he didn't stop writing
to me and every time he demanded to meet me. At first I just refused
him, but he didn't stop writing to me. After that I stopped responding
to him. But he tried to find out from my friends where I live. They
immediately talked about this to me and didn't tell him where I live.
One month after he met me at my university. I realized that he
recognized this from my Facebook account. He told me about it. I began
to fear his persecution. A couple days after he met me at the
university, he found out where I live and came to my house and tried
to persuade me to give him a time. But he behaved very strange, so I
was scared to leave my apartment. I tried to ask for the help from the
police, but they told me that they can't do anything about it until a
crime occurs. I was shocked that they don't want to do anything. And
finally, one day I was just terribly frightened and asked my classmate
Anna to accompany me to my home after school. And this request was
heard by one guy from my group. His name was Vladimir. He said he can
help me. At first I didn't understand how he could help me. But he has
been boxing since childhood and he was big enough. He walked to home
with me for a couple of days and this man was waiting for me at my
house again. Vladimir approached him and at first just started talking
to him, but this man didn't understand him and said that he was in
love with me and was trying to get me this way. Vladimir realized this
man won't leave me alone and Vladimir told this man that he is my
boyfriend. And if this man won't stop pursuing me, Vladimir will have
to beat him. After this incident, I no longer saw this man, but now I
have a fear of using social networks. There are a lot of bad people in
the net. Some people want to get someone's money, others are seeking
for slaves and prostitutes, still others have other bad intentions.
However there are millions of those who are seeking for love and
relations, just like you and me, and I hope that they make up the
majority. But, you should feel if a person is true or not, that's it.
As for me there was also a man who wrote me a lot but I felt that he
lied to me from his first letter and I stopped answering him. Just
listen what your heart tells you. So I think that we understand each
other and we will never talk about it again. I respect you.
I know that you are tormented by the question of what made me come to
the States. Now I try tell you as much as possible about this. As I
said earlier, I was born in Czech Republic. And this country has a weak
economic development. Corruption is very developed in our country and
this prevents ordinary people from having a decent standard of living.
I studied in the State Pedagogical University. I have a teacher's
degree. I have a pre-school pedagogical specialization. I graduated
from the Pedagogical University and hoped that I could find a decent
job, but when I got a job I was shocked. So several years have passed
and I began to think about my life about a place where I could realize
myself. One day my friend Milena told me that if I lived in the states
I could find a decent standard of living and could live for a while
there.
I know Milena for 14 years. She helped me to find a good job. Milena
is my best friend. Do you have a good friends? I have a working visa.
I have a friend Milena. She was born in Prague also. Milena live in
New York about 10 years and she has an American citizenship. She was
married within 2 years, but 6 months ago she divorced. Milena have a a
little son Scott from this marriage. I forgot to say that I have no
time to communicate in messengers. I hope you understand it.
I think you are tired of my long letter, so I have to stop writing for
today. But I will write more, if you will be interested in me. I have
some questions for you. Can you describe a woman of your dream? Can
you tell me a little bit more information of your work? I send you my
photo with my friend Milena. I hope you will like it. I hope to see
your another photos too. I will give you my phone when we will know
each other little more. I want talk with you by the phone but I think
it's early. I am waiting for your answer!
Your friend Tereza