You looked a bit sleepy on that picture, XXX from XXX i like the way you put it- sweet:) Am not sure what happened to your yahoo account, but i am glad you send me that message, it seems easier than on the site:) Hmm... i am on a dating site..still cannot get used to this idea..weird..don't grin, since you were also there:) Awkwardness away- we met there- that is a bonus, to tell you the truth it all started with chat rooms with me, i am a teacher of english, and many times my students were inspiring me to teach them not the text book English but real one, alive, the one that people really speak in natural atmosphere, so i did try every possible way and for sure one of the ideas was to speak to the native speakers that is how i actually got to the internet, it was amusing, actually, sometimes even a bit discouraging since i found out that many people have different intentions, someone were just fishing for some virtual sex, and that was something
i wasn't ready for, but i also have to admit that i met some good people in here and we still chat from time to time,mostly ladies, and i realized one more time that all those opinions about different mentalities are so wrong, yes,we come from different origins, life style is a bit different, but we are humans, no matter where we have been born Ukraine, Holland or any other place, we all might be interested in the same spheres, i guess desire of self development, achieving your dreams, and have a person close not only physically, but mentally and in spirit- they are common...and that was the time i thought maybe there is a point of me to register on the dating site, cause people there they mostly have a goal to meet someone not just for a chat, but for a possible relationship, so how long you are divorced is it 3 years, or i misunderstood something, you were married for three years but dating for something like 15, am i right?I have never been married so that makes me single:) and even though i am far from being desperate still i won't hide from you that i am not planning to stay single forever, i am not talking about the urgent need for the stamp in passport, but for an open, solid communication, tenderness, care, understanding...So that is my little story of how i ended up here and was pleasantly surprised to see you:), and now we are talking... me talking mostly:), but monologue is not what i am heading into, i want to talk to you, to listen, and not just to listen but to hear...it was funny you stated" holidays" as your hobby, does this mean you know how to enjoy life- that is the best feature:) I think you might have this time of tulips i Holland right now, am not sure whether I out it right, but i checked with some photos, and hey, it looks lovely, indeed, a perfect place for holidays and enjoying life, 1 km from the beach- that is a thrill, is it already enough warm to get there? i am sure pretty soon you will have a nice tan i would jealous off:) Do you spend much time outdoors? I guess due to your hobbies, how did you end up here on the site? You know, XXX, I am thinking when i was in my teens no one could imagine that you can meet people not even crossing the threshold of your house - now internet helps, though i also see some disadvantage in this easiness - it can get you lazy, yes, really, as then people were trying to look their best to make a good impression on the new acquaintance, still remember my awkward dates, it took me hours to choose what to wear, which lipstick to choose, now you can wake up, and even before brushing your teeth to switch on the computer and write hello.though it counts if you have computer at home, i don't:) i am actually writing you from my work place, as my boss was kind enough to let me use her computer,it doesn't happen too often, but you don;t worry i will find a way cause now I have a reason, as I would be definitely waiting on your reply:), so yes, XXX from XXX( sorry i hope that doesn't sound like teasing as I do not mean it this way:) but you can be sure, i have my make up on, and I am wearing a black dress since I was teaching today and that is how i usually dress for the classes, i got to my second job now .did i tell you i also work at the entertainment agency? I will explain you later if that is something you would like to know:) Why I am telling you about my make up and outfit?- am not sure, i guess i just don;t want to hide under this virtuality, and want you to know real me.So let us be open, i mean it doesn;t mean that I expect you to share your most intimate secrets right from the start, but i think we can just forget about making an impression, later still the person would see your real self, and if not, then i would be scared that someone is with me not even knowing me, i think you would agree, so i will hurry up to send this to you, and you hurry up to catch on our dialogue, i hope you also have this impression that we can talk like old friends, or why I am saying this, better like new ones, but very friendly:)
Liza from Elizaveta