Oh, dachte hier geht nichts mehr Hallo XXXXXX
wie geht es dir?
> shame that you're not with me .. I would have gladly taken you.
> But maybe you want to come over to me??
it would be great of course to celebrate all winter holidays
together:)
My darling, I am a little philosopher in my soul and sometimes I am happy to
think about different topics and it would be interesting for me to see, whether
we have something in common with you:)
in this moment I am reading a book called the five love languages by Gary
Chapman, have you ever heard this book?
this is an extract about the book.
Words of Affirmation
Mark Twain once said “I can live for two months on a good compliment.” Verbal
appreciation speaks powerfully to persons whose primary Love Language is “Words
of Affirmation.” Simple statements, such as, “You look great in that suit,” or
“You must be the best baker in the world! I love your oatmeal cookies,” are
sometimes all a person needs to hear to feel loved.
Quality Time
Quality time is more than mere proximity. It’s about focusing all your energy
on your mate. A husband watching sports while talking to his wife is NOT
quality time. Unless all of your attention is focused on your mate, even an
intimate dinner for two can come and go without a minute of quality time being
shared.
Receiving Gifts
Some mates respond well to visual symbols of love. If you speak this love
language, you are more likely to treasure any gift as an expression of love and
devotion. People who speak this love language often feel that a lack of gifts
represents a lack of love from their mate. Luckily, this love language is one
of the easiest to learn.
Acts of Service
Sometimes simple chores around the house can be an undeniable expression of
love. Even simple things like laundry and taking out the trash require some
form of planning, time, effort, and energy. Just as Jesus demonstrated when he
washed the feet of his disciples, doing humble chores can be a very powerful
expression of love and devotion to your mate.
Physical Touch
Many mates feel the most loved when they receive physical contact from their
partner. For a mate who speaks this love language loudly, physical touch can
make or break the relationship.
In other words, the love is a choice and you need to learn the language of your
mate; what do you think about it? Do you believe of love?
I will be waiting for your response.
Kiss Marina