Hello xxx,
Its surprising how you responded so fast to my previous email. I was thinking that also was going to take too long a time to write back
... You don't mind me, am just kidding this time..LOL. Anyway, I want to thank you for writing back and, also expressing your desire to have it a try with me. You mentioned in your email saying "I have convinced you", No! I think I succeeded in challenging you to foresee what is way too possible in what you called a long distance relationship.
Am glad you agreed totally to what I said and hey, I must tell you that is plus for me. I just want you to understand am not forcing myself on you..No No No !!! it will be like slapping my own face back if things doesn't work the way we both expected. I know we both searching for something special and important in life that is why we here communicating.
Over the years, I have come to develop this self-confidence because I knew doing that would in much ways would propel me in finding the man I have always wanted to meet. As someone with high self-confidence, I feel quite comfortable interacting with other people. Indeed, I find the company of others very stimulating and enjoy meeting new people. My relaxed demeanor in groups makes people around me comfortable too. Perhaps because I feel comfortable talking about myself, others tend to enjoy being around me and perceive me as socially competent.
The confidence that helps me feel comfortable talking to people also spills into my own personal beliefs about myself. Although I have several strengths, it’s likely that I also acknowledge and accept my weaknesses. But unlike some people, I take full responsibility for my actions—I rarely regret things I have done in the past and am not embarrassed easily.
Perhaps the defining feature that sets me apart from most people is the exceptionally high standards that I set for myself. My competence in social gatherings as well as at work should provide ample evidence for this. With these characteristics, it’s very likely that people come to me for advice and generally think of me as someone with leader-like qualities.
I read how you were actually born in Canada and migrated to Germany in your teens age. Wow, that might be something like fun/adventure because most American kids would love traveling outside of America to have a culture, meeting entirely different people and even a change in food. And you would agree with me Germany has a very rich culture in Europe. The good thing was a kid, you adjusted, gathered yourself back despise the new changes around you and there you are happily living your dreams as a mechanic in an engineering company. Kudos to you! I don't even want to talk about your ended marriage or the girlfriend you were having and also sex with. I believe its a thing of the past. Am I right ?
All of our past hurts and relationships are lessons. Sometimes we do have to go back and remember those times to understand the lesson we needed to learn from it. I always tried to forget those hurtful times in my life, but then I realized I had to figure out where I may have gone wrong.
I needed to learn the lesson to help me move on. Once I stopped blaming myself and others, I was able to take a good look at me and how I could be better for someone else. One ‘rule of thumb’ that I had read about, was that after a divorce or breakup you should refrain from dating for at least a couple years. At first I thought that was a bit extreme. But I did realize it takes time to heal. It takes time to change things about yourself that may need to be changed for you to be a better person. You need to be rid of all the baggage from your past. Otherwise, you are vulnerable to making the same mistake and thinking someone else can heal you. You don’t use another relationship to get over someone else. Why would you want to be with someone who is still thinking of someone else and comparing you to them, I sure don’t. It may not take a person two years to heal, but it’s always better to be over someone else before you date someone new. Don’t use them to ease your pain.
So my question to you would be that, "Are you truly over with your fun and sex girlfriend"??
Well, you sure you want to know me
, Ok I have a depth of character and a variety of interests. I am vibrant, I have been blessed with a good background, a great family and caring long term friends. I am considerate, thoughtful, kind, intelligent, accomplished, honest, reliable and good natured. I am also vividly creative. I have an open heart and a positive attitude toward relationships. I am emotionally healthy, and am looking to enjoy life with a very special someone. I like and enjoy who I am as a single person, yet I look forward to partnering with someone with whom we can each make the other's journey more special and heart warming by our being in each others lives. "Being the right person is more important than finding the right person" I also believe that life is more meaningful when multiplied by the power of two:-).... I have a lot to give and I value the process, not just the "product" of building an incredible communion built on trust, team work, affection, zest, acceptance, mutual respect and shared dreams. I want to bring out the best in someone as well as experience him doing so in me. For me to be with a man I would need a strong interpersonal connection. In particular, a man who I enjoy conversation with me, who I respect for the choices which he has made in life, and who has a sense of fun and consideration as well as responsibility. I pay more attention to what people do than what they say. I am holding out for someone who is extremely enlightened. Someone who is honest, believe in God, stable, and can create joy with me. The man for me will be someone who inspires me in several ways.
I'm only interested in someone who would be team oriented in how we build and conduct our relationship. I want someone who can make me "laugh from the gut", who is well grounded, and who lives his life with integrity. The best part of me is "on the inside". Since life is not always perfect, I am looking for someone who would be an active participant in contributing to the development of a relationship that could last for the long haul and also stand test of time. Having a vision for your life, an open heart and an intention to walk the higher path are all very important to me. I want a partnership in which we connect equally well in each of the four quadrants that is mentally, spiritually, physically, and emotionally. I am glad my work take me abroad a few times per year and its pretty flexible. Mmm, what else is there to say. Now you got me thinking..Hahaha.
Gosh, I think I have written so much and will send this for now. I know its evening in Germany and will probably write to me tomorrow or if am lucky this night. Which ever way, I will be grateful. Have a good night and answer my question with all sincerity.
Much regards,
Sherrie.
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