Good afternoon xxx,
I hope all is well with you at your end..I think a little introduction about me will give you an insight about me.I was born in China both my Parents and my younger sister reside there but due to work engagement is currently working in Ghana.
let me try to be a little elaborate about me so that it can give you a whole idea about me.I believe you truly will loved to know more about me which i certainly believe it will tell you a lot about my personality, ideas, feeling and what drives me. Am not trying to overwhelm you or playing an act or drama.I hope you are okay with this format. It is not at all strict guidelines but discussing onto paper this way will give us both a rich insight into each other’s backgrounds and where we see ourselves going from here.
I like direct communications so each know exactly where you stand.There is nothing sadder than a missed opportunity. “I never regret things I’ve done, but i regret many things i have not done”.You never know how things are going to be before you try them. Every single experience, good or bad, enriches your life in some way. They build the foundation for decisions in the future. They make you wiser and build up your self-esteem.Not to mention that in every missed opportunity, you may have missed the love of your life.All the good things in life involve a certain risk, but the biggest risk in life is missing out.Think about that.
Growing up, I mainly saw the downsides, which ranged from a mild feeling of not belonging, to a profound understanding of what it is to be an outcast. But as an adult I've mainly experienced the upside: a cultural bilateralism that can be beneficial in much the same way as speaking two languages.
I would love my mate to be my partner. Someone that walks along side of me and experiences everything I experience. Someone to share my life with in every way.I hope as time goes on we will have an over-view about each other which we will appreciate dearly. I can honestly say i believe in long distance relationship in as much as we both wants to make it work out. For me relationships are best discovered and enjoyed when we reveal ourselves fully to each other.I believe that a true relationship is a combine two stories of two individuals to coauthor a new relationship story. The implicit contracts authored by each party in a relationship become unspoken assumptions that can facilitate or derail the relationship.For me a crucial part of communication in a relationship is to make explicit the hidden assumptions and implicit expectations to see the point of view of the other. And to communicate that understanding, each must respect the other’s point of view and establish a common ground to understand different points of view to create a mutual, collaborative agreement or plan. Understanding and respect are not synonymous with agreement.I hope you agree with that!! smile.The ultimate freedom is not to rely on someone else’s response to determine how you feel about yourself.
One aspect i see very important is developing empathy with another which is listening to yourself as well as to another person with resonance of an entire experience of feeling, thinking, perceiving, and behaving in the truest sense of who we are and what we believe in. My personal preference is to have a monogamous relationship with a man, to have multiple partners-is to go against Gods design for us. anyway.. A glass of red wine and watching the sun set with that special someone is a nice way to finish the day. I like to take walks, read when I feel like it. I've never been much for sitting in a bar or clubs. i'm somewhat reserved in that not too much gets me unraveled, in other words i usually don't get excited over little things that sometimes go wrong.I'm the type that will speak up if the situation warrants it, otherwise you will probably see me laugh off most minor occurrences. In as much you see beauty in my appearance i have not been fortunate to find love my heart desired.All my efforts and quest has been failure and disappointments.And my heart has been shattered with guilt, intense emotional pain-anger, disbelief and fear..that was what my life was in my past years. I will like to know your first impression about me and if you feel like dating someone like me
What is your Personality, feelings and emotions
What is your favorites delight you loved doing the most?
Do you love Pets and do you have one?
What basically attract you?
Do you take off-day or long vacation and where do you normally go?
Tell me the some aspects which has to do with your moral convictions beliefs religion and spiritual matters
I do have a lot in mind though but i will rest for another time-whiles i will leave you to ponder and have in dept thoughts to respond to me as i want to learn more about you am been sincere with you.
Best regards
Emelia