Good to get email from you and I will always respond even if your emails are short.
You are the only one I'm focused on and interested in.
I wish for a woman who will place the biggest smile on my face, that will make my children ask dad what are you smiling at and it will be because I'm lost in thought over something you said or your little smile after your sentence. This and more are what my heart crave for.
I really am a unique person and I believe beauty is from within.
As we grow older our looks diminish and you need to love what is underneath. I have been blessed to be reasonably attractive. I have good looking parents so I guess that's where it comes from.
I was in a few advertisements when I was about 19. To be a model you have to starve yourself not really my thing! I was very photogenic in my younger years.
I was always very shy and timid until life circumstances changed me and I had to grow up very quickly and go out on my own into the big wide world which absolutely terrified me but hey I survived.
A couple of my favourite moves is Pretty Women with Richard Gere and Julia Roberts
7pounds with Will Smith. The Lake House with Keanu Reeves. Ghost with Demi moore and Patrick Swayze. Premonition with Sandra Bullock. The Crow Marlon Brando. PS I Love You With Hillary Swank and Gerard Butler.
The Note Book. Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle Stop Café Jessica Tandy. Dragon Fly Kevin Costner as I'm mad about dragon flies. And loads more.
I went to Italy with my dad in 2009 he comes from Trieste. We also went to Paris and yes I adore and love Paris.
I only was there for to 3 days and would love to spend a lot longer.
Due to the line of work that I'm in I have to have excellent communication skills so to me it is vital for a successful relationship.
I want to be in love with a woman that truly loves everything about me. There is a song at the moment All of me by John? That song if you get to listen to it is exactly how I would want my woman to be in love with me.
Julia Roberts in the Pretty Women says I want my knight in shining armour to come rescue me from my tower. I want my woman to see me as her hero and i will rescues her and we'll live happily ever after. That's what I want.
I'm very sincere and speak what's on my mind. I need a woman that can appreciate how I feel and allow me to express myself just like she expresses herself.
I don't ever get angry. I express by emotions. My friends and colleagues often ask me to come and talk to clients that are going off their brain and are very aggressive because I have a very calming and soothing voice and it often works as treat. People ask me how I stay so calm. I guess I'm blessed with that ability.
The answers to the questions I asked you....
To win my heart: Is very simple. Be the person you are and not be false. Mean what you say and deliver what you say. Actions speak louder than words. People can say a lot of things but to actually do what they say is what I look for. Love me unconditionally with all your heart and soul.
I will only know if a woman is destined for me by searching her soul. If I look deep into your eyes when we meet I will know.
I would only ever kiss a woman on the first date if I truly felt that person was the one for me and after observing her body language and searching her soul along with her scent and chemistry that draws and attracts you to that person. I would then long to kiss that person and would hope they would kiss me.
I don't have a problem with that! Lol
I wouldn't have children, married and put up with what I have if I truly didn't believe I loved that person. So yes I have loved before.
The word love to me: To have respect, honour and love for that person unconditionally. To be prepared to fight in battle for that person . To love is to show no selfishness, to be intimate together like no other. To know that person inside and out and what makes them tick. To give every part of you. To be your soul mate for all eternity. I could go on and on!
As much as love can hurt it is the most beautiful and most powerful feeling in the world.
I hope to see myself in 5 years enjoying every seconds of life and thinking how amazing and wonderful life is and how blessed I must be to have something so rare and special and all that I need and want in life (soul mate).
What turns me on is the little sweet things that are whispered to my ear, the scent of my woman that I'm attracted to it makes my heart pound with excited. It's all In the kiss! If that person knows how to kiss I'm gone! I like to be made feel special and to think that a person will go the extra mile to do that for me. Loads of affection, I' love being touched! I'm a very touchy and not being afraid to show that in public is a big turn on. I like my woman to put on a show for me and go all out to impress.( just like when a male bird is trying to attract a female bird he will do a little dance, song, fluff his feathers and display this grand gesture to impress his woman.) My woman turns me on if she is warm, loving and thoughtful and affectionate.
What turns me off is someone who is not willing to love me unconditionally. Someone who has no patience and is aggressive or violent in nature or wants to hurt you by using the things you have said in confidence.
Someone who is selfish and only thinks of herself or her own needs before others. Someone who doesn't want to spend time exploring or being very intimate before making love.
My worst moment in life was when my son, around his 18th birthday broke his C1 in his neck at work.
I was at work when a professor from NMA hospital rang me and said" I'm just letting you know that your son has broken his C1. He has had the same injury as Christopher Reeves the actor. We need you to come ASAP" Well you can imagine the heart wrenching feeling that came over me. And naturally I had pictured the worst. What he failed to tell me is that my son didn't sever his spinal cord only broke his C1 so he wasn't going to be a vegetable. My nightmare of 2 years had just begun.
The most precious thing in life to me is watching my children whom are the most precious thing to me grow. And of cause life itself.
When I have been depressed I surround myself with the things I love the most. Or I will watch something that will snap me out of depression quick smart. I will have a coffee with one of my dearest friends that will always put a smile on my face.
Your King
James.