Sometimes the good things in life are the ones where you don't have to call out the obvious, it
just is what it is. Apparently even I don't know what it is, but whatever it is, it feels good to stand where
I'm standing right now…even when I know it's going to end real soon. I guess at the end of it, this wraps up my understanding
about relationships between people. Why people have
the relationships they have. Why some people who commit to
lovey dovey things everyday still break up and why some
people who barely do it can stay together for a lifetime. After
all these years, after all my own failed relationships. I finally get. It's all about trust.
I have lived enough to know that there is no such thing
as the perfect person nor is there a fairy tale ending,
but I still believe that there are such things as a perfect
relationship. Relationships where strengths compliment each
other's weakness, where equals and opposites are at the right place. Perfect relationships exists…it's just that we have to bring it out and thats where things start to go wrong.
It is sad that the cynicism and unsaid insecurities are
the diseases of the generations today. We live in a world
where
we always keep that part of us away from the world
because
we don't want to end up being hurt. The sad thing
is…it's that very sense of distrust for the world
that makes the world the miserable shell it is now.
How many times have we had opportunities lost because we
were too afraid to grab the chance? How many times have
we had things we have destroyed because we were so scared
we
were going to lose it anyway? How many times have we
had the
people we care for walk away because we didn't believe
in them to care for us? Too many times I have seen it.Too
many times I have lived it. I think it's time to change that.
Relationships with people are all about that trust.
Trust to watch your back. Trust to care for you. Trust to
believe in their
abilities. Trust to open your heart to them and let
them
take you higher. How deep the bonds go between people
depends on how well you trust a person to be themselves with
you. Without that, no relationship would go anywhere.
And it shows…in the way we do things between people.
Why do couples act all lovely dovey? Because when you think
of it, touch is a way you can reassure each other that
you're there for them, that you can trust them to be there for you. Why do friendships fail?
Because you eventually realize that you can't trust a person
enough
to watch your back when the chips are down. So when you
boil
it down to that simple equation…all you need is to
know
the reasons why you trust a person. It doesn't have to
be that you have to feel them. it doesn't have to be
that you have to tell them. It just has to be that you
are
there when you need to be there.
Trust is something that is unspoken for. It cannot be told
or
written or felt. It is something you earn by the
actions in
which you live life between the people you're
connected
to. Without it, we are the very definition of the
loners we
have become. Without trust, there can be no connection
with
people. Without trust, there can be nothing to be entirely human about. Without trust, we are nothing more than living a lie in a nightmare of our own making. I'm not saying that trust is something you should give freely. As I said, the world is a place that can burn
you. It's just that by the end of it, the choice for how you
want your life to be is entirely yours. You can take a chance and give your trust to people that earned it. Or you can take the chance losing out a life where anythin is possible. I trust you can make that right choice. I really do.
kisses and hugs
jenny
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