Brief 2: Hi XXX,
How are you doing today? I hope you're fine and having a wonderful weekend,I'm glad to hear back from you and honestly i didn't know you will feel comfortable answering my question but now i believe we are communicating...I'm not at all put off by your answers to the questions I asked.Here are my answers to the questions I asked this way you'll also know if I am DATEABLE?
Here goes:
1) Are you a happy person? - without question I am an happy person. I believe that life is a gift and part of that gift is making choices. I make a choice every single day to put a smile on my face and focus on positive things. One way I do this it to focus on the all the blessings I have. Don't get me wrong I have bad days like everyone else but I choose to not dwell on the bad things and change my focus to something that makes me smile and happy.
2) Do you say "my ex" more than 5 times a day? To be completely honest I never say "my ex"!Michael was my first love and he was taken from me without notice one day. Loosing him was very devastating to my entire world and he will always have a special place in my heart. With that said, I have accepted that he is gone and life with him as I knew it is over. I have accepted it and am looking forward to building a "new normal" for myself. I am not looking to replace him in any way. I am looking to find someone I can love and who will love me in return.
(3) Are you financially stable? - Yes - I work very hard to have what I have. I am not materialistic but I do like to have nice things. I love to travel and enjoy the finer things in life. I have grown so much over the past couple of years. I enjoy nice things but I never loose sight that they are just "things"!
(4) Do you have future goals, dreams or desires? I would love to open up a center for the young people to go to and just have fun. I am tired of hearing about all these children either dying from drug overdose, or killing each other, or something. I feel our young people don't have the opportunity we had to actually enjoy their life because of all the things that are going on in the world. I would love to open up either an activity center or something where they can come and hang out, and basically enjoy themselves.. Along with offering a mentoring service for those youths that need the inspiration to make it through their life..Am sounding old already???lol
5- I have told myself that it is OK for me to be me, once again. A large part of me has lain dormant for many years - - my passions, my desires, my happiness, my direction in life. I am re-reading "The Final Lecture" which was such a life-changing read for me, the first go-round. It is not about death and coping - - it is about grabbing life and climbing the highest mountain you can find and reveling in LIFE. I am surrounding myself with my things - - and now creating my memories and history. My soul greets each morning with excitement, and says good night with contentment.
6. Yes.
7- Oh yes - - a compassionate, passionate partner totally committed to our lives and whatever it takes to help each other be complete.
8- My thoughts are overwhelming to me, right now - - wonderful, happy tears are streaming down my face. I knew I liked you the moment I saw your face and read your profile. I am in the business of "reading" people - - and the meter went off the charts as I have explored and learned more and more about you. I cannot get you off of my mind - - i hope we get to meet someday soon, (hope I am steamrolling - - just have to express my true feelings or I will burst - -
9- Absolutely, positively, ecstatically YES, YES, YES. And just so that you cannot mis-interpret my answer - - - YES, I want to spend time with you and continue this wonderful exploration of each other.
I hope my answers are good enough for you??Well i would like to know what are your thoughts about "chemistry" between two people?
I am eager to get to know more about you and willing to share things about me with you. Getting to know you is a journey that I am excited about!
Regard's
Victoria