Er hat sich gestern bei BeSocial gemeldet und heute eine Mail geschrieben. http://www.besocial.com/profile/view/suttonfred1 Dear xxxxx
It's really a pleasure knowing you and I do hope that each and every step we make will be a blessing for us and our families. You seems to be nice. I am glad for you and will always try my best to be whatever you want me to be for you in this relationship. It's amazing to know that nice people like you are still out there and I considered myself lucky to have met you. If everything works out for us, we shall be witness to so many people, as they testify. I have heard a lot of people, who met their soul mates through online dating.
At times, we might be expecting God to bring to us those that are within our vicinity, but He would look up and bring to us someone from afar, from different country we never dream of having contact with. Our duty is to accept them for there is a reason for that. I am ready to company you and support you in anyway. I really wish to meet you in the future if He wills and permits us because it would help us a lot.I am a christian and believe in God. I don't go to church but I pray and thank God in my own way when there is a feeling that I want to share something with Him. Of course my relationship with religion can also change during life as many other things also change during the years. I truly hope that you can understand my way of thinking and accept it.
May I ask you to tell me something about your past, for example when have you been divorced, how old are your children, from what kind of family you are coming from etc.?
Here is something about me: my marriage ended last year officially but emotionally things started to go to a wrong direction many years back...My son is now 13yrs.
I have had very tough last 3 years as my mother died 2007 and already then my marriage was not in a good shape. In 2009 serious difficulties started with my wx-wife and I was very sad then. In summer 2010 my father died and as I'm unfortunately the only child there was a lot of to get done regarding official issues etc. They both were very sick before the death and my mother spent 2 years in a nursing home and my father 1 year before they passed away. We were very close so it was really sad to see them suffering without not being able to truly help. The only thing that I could do was to visit them and take care of all the practicalities.
But luckily I have good friends who have always supported me during hard times. I'm really grateful to them all for all their support. I have also been lucky to be able to concentrate on my work as a Geological Engineer/Consultant. in my own middle Geo-Spartal Engineering Firm. In the middle of all the losses and grief work has been a kind of balancer to me. I'm not in any career tunnel but I try to do my best to develop in my areas of expertise as I enjoy learning a lot.
Hope this gave some more knowledge about me to you Kelvin. I'd love to hear more about you so please tell about your life so far and also feel free to ask whatever you would like to know from me. I'm only happy if I can answer to all the questions that you may have regarding my life.I'm having a bit of trouble loading the pics but will try again and see if not I'll do so tomorrow.
Hope you had a good day and wish you a wonderful day.
Kind Regards,
Fred