@Stiray:
ja, die Erklärung bezügl. IP-Adressen interessiert mich schon sehr!
und ich fang mal an die mails chronologisch zu posten, bis jemand stopp sagt...

Sie hatte mich auf parship angeschrieben, mir ihre email-Adresse gegeben und dann nicht mehr geantwortet. Ich ging eigentlich davon aus, dass es ein fake ist, im Lauf der mails änderte sich das...



"Guten Morgen xxxxx,

Es ist schön, von Ihnen zu hören wieder. How are you doing? Ich bin guthier. Ja du hast recht xxxxx, ich bin nicht mehr auf parhsip wieder. Ich binnicht da, weil ich nicht erfüllen, ernsthafte Leute, damit ich aufhörenentschieden. Ich habe nicht finden mein Lebenspartner noch. Ich hoffe, Sieverstehen mich xxxxx.

Sie können mir etwas über sich erzählen, wenn Sie uns, es zu versuchen.Sie können mir Ihre Bilder so gut und ich werde auch das Gleiche tun inmeinem nächsten Brief. Achten Sie darauf, und einen guten Tag haben.Umarmungen

Mina"

ab da fingen die Nachrichten an, recht umfangreich zu werden und es war da Bemühen erkennbar, auf meine Fragen und Inhalte einzugehen. Manches irritierte mich trotzdem (zb die behauptete Vielweiberei)


Hello xxxxx , 

It is nice hearing from you again . Thanks for the picture .You look great  in there  .I do not look better than you xxxxx .   There is a saying in our tradition that '' men must look ugly and fearful ''  lol .   But i think is lies . Or what do you think   . I am really sorry for the late reply  . I have been in the village where i teaches which i sometimes find it difficult to reply or get access to the internet . But at the moment i am back to Accra to spend the weekend with my mother . 

So what were you thinking about me xxxxx .  If i look better than you but i do not care of that . All i need is love and happiness in my life with someone who love me as i am . I hope you understands me xxxxx . You  looks good without the hair on your head  . Do you have picture of when your hair was long ? 

Concerning about why i do not have German name . I have name after my grand father which is our customs  and my father agreed to that  .My dad used to call me Martina but i love to be called by my local name  . 

I do not really know any one named by gloria Akazabre  . Do you know anybody like that in Ghana . I think a friend has ever told me about that . But i didn't take that serious  .   
Life in Accra is normal . Lack of jobs  but we are taking things easy and still working hard . How is life in Austria ?   
Yes i am looking forward to try on other countries but i am not really good in this  . Actually its was my best friend who introduced to this . She got married to a dutch man last year  . It was really fun . I was her bride mate  . 
I choose to date outside my country because  i do not want to  date anyone in my country . I love to be with someone different from my culture . And i cannot also afford to be married to someone who is allow to married any number of girls he wants . Do you know that . In Ghana tradition every man has the legal rites to married to number of women they want except the devoted Christians . Yes i will love to live in europe but not that as such . where ever i will find myself with my dream man . I will not hesitate to join or relocate to him if we all agree with that . Will you like to live in Ghana  ? 

xxxxx , there is nothing important than love and happiness in marriage . I am not looking for better living .  Since we both have jobs , we can spend our lives together and build it for the best in future .  Two heads are better than one  .Is a literally saying in my country  . I have hope that i can get better job in Europe where ever i find myself but is only that i am not getting that here because everything in Ghana is politics and protocol  .   


Honesty is the only way we can build our relationship together if you want us to .   As i have told you . I am not looking for rich men or handsome men . All i need is love , care and happiness with a man who will love me and accept me as i who i am .   It was nice hearing from you xxxxx . Take care and have nice day . Good morning . 

Mina"

hab letzten donnerstag an +Mina+ geschrieben, dass ich aufgebe und nicht nach ghana fahre, sitze aber dort in einem internet cafe und bekam diese nachricht von +ihr+
weiss nicht, soll ich noch antworten??


Hello M , 


I have receive all of your messages  and i do appreciate your messages and your care  you have for me . I am really sorry for keeping you waiting  . You know i cannot see your message and never rely you .  I was sick and admitted in the hospital  for almost three weeks now  . 


I am litte bit okay .  I am sorry once again for not being there for you  .  I will look through you messages tomorrow and reply you if i am okay . Good night m .


Mina